Relationships..Sometimes you can’t live with them but you can’t live without them. The question is, in Hollywood, how serious are relationships considered? Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey got married, and it seemed that, as quickly as they got married, they divorced. Then there was Britney and K-fed, also Britney’s annulled marriage, in which she claimed that she was drunk and didn’t know what she was doing. It makes me sad to see all of these failed relationships.
I wonder sometimes if these couples are getting married too quickly. I believe that it is possible to ruin a good thing by rushing. So it is important to take the time to consider what you are doing when you consider marriage. I myself am not married, but am surrounded by people who are.
It’s not something light, and you bring in many situations when you get married. You have financial responsibility, and that in itself is a stress. (Finances stress me out alone. I’m not sure what it would be like doubling up the stress with adding another person to the mix.)
So I think to myself: “What happened to marriage?” I feel as though the majority consider marriage as the new “going steady.” That worries me. I fear that people don’t take marriage for what it really is worth, that some consider marriage as something that isn’t permanent.
Well, no it isn’t always permanent. People do discover differences; however, to me marriage is something sacred. I would prefer to get married once, and let that be it.
I just observe the status of couples in Hollywood and consider that they are in fact setting a trend with marriage: the idea that it’s all fun, and when the fun stops, people get divorced. Marriage takes work from both ends, and I fear that this is a concept that some people don’t always consider.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m all for marriage, even young marriage. I just wish that it would be considered responsibly. I can’t imagine all of the stress that comes packaged with a relationship in Hollywood. I just hope that, in Hollywood, maybe people would consider what they are doing and save themselves the heartache and sometimes even save them the embarrassment